why reclaim our feeling nature ?

“The heart feels what the eyes cannot see and knows what the mind cannot understand”

Developing and reclaiming our feeling nature gives us the capacity to detect truth energy and therefore sense what is and is not congruent with it.

We can begin to develop our intuition aka “feeling nature” by first acknowledging & recognising we are not our thoughts.

Over identification with thought is really a distraction and signpost of a much deeper disconnection with self & our higher identification/knowing, and even deeper than that a form of self-rejection.

Feelings are the eyes of the heart, when we are aligned to love and deeply connected to all that we are (the radiant soul) there is a knowing, a true north & internal compass.

So often in this life we are encouraged to think about everything, how often do you find yourself saying let me think about it” vs let me FEEL into it?

Perhaps it’s because we don’t trust the feeling nature, we may have confused feeling with identifying with our limiting beliefs and emotions - our very valid yet subjective experience, not to be confused with the truth.

There is a saying “if it’s not love, it’s not the truth” allow yourself for a moment to feel that.

If we really break it down, there are really only two frequencies - love or fear.

Our feeling nature gives us the capacity to FEEL truth energy (LOVE) and detect what is congruent with it and what is not.

From this awareness and knowing we are not only able to run this filter across our interactions with others/life itself but that of ourselves, to feel what is happening within our own experience, and get a sense of what we are feeling and experiencing beyond the words or perceived phenomena on the ground.

It’s not about judgment it’s a type of curiosity. What is that I’m feeling?

An opening/invitation to step in, a willingness to surrender to becoming self-aware. From here we can choose to actively clear out what is not us to connect with the greater essence that we are.

We are all energetic beings and just as the sugar in the water is, we may not see it, we simply experience it.

~ Jen

Why the truth will set you free but first it will shatter your illusions

The path to authenticity - to truly 𝓴𝓷𝓸𝔀 𝓽𝓱𝔂 𝓼𝓮𝓵𝓯 is more often than not forged through a transformational fire.

An alchemical process that can only begin to take place through our willingness to know and accept the truth.

Without truth there is stagnation. We cannot grow or learn.

To be an authentic and sovereign being is to know thy self. Which begins with our capacity to accept ourselves exactly as it is and exactly as we are.

In this way the Truth is directly linked in with our humility, we acknowledge both our strengths and shortcomings without projecting at it or judging it. We acknowledge how far we have come and how far we have to go, creating a steady foundation to truly grow, learn and evolve.

Through truth comes the opportunity to peel away the masks, false layers of self to uncover more of who and what we truly are.

We inevitably reveal the hidden jewels, gifts that lie within, and in this way we become linked in with more of who we truly are at the core.

Through truth comes the magnificent opportunity to shine our bright lights into the world giving permission for others to do the same.

It is therefore for the most part through our unbecoming that we inevitably become. We must not fear the fire .

𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓭𝓮𝓰𝓻𝓮𝓮 𝓲𝓷 𝔀𝓱𝓲𝓬𝓱 𝓪 𝓹𝓮𝓻𝓼𝓸𝓷 𝓬𝓪𝓷 𝓰𝓻𝓸𝔀 𝓲𝓼 𝓲𝓷 𝓭𝓲𝓻𝓮𝓬𝓽 𝓹𝓻𝓸𝓹𝓸𝓻𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓽𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓪𝓶𝓸𝓾𝓷𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓽𝓱 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝔂 𝓬𝓪𝓷 𝓪𝓬𝓬𝓮𝓹𝓽 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶𝓼𝓮𝓵𝓿𝓮𝓼 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓻𝓾𝓷𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝔀𝓪𝔂 - 𝓛𝓮𝓵𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓥𝓪𝓵 𝓥𝓪𝓷 𝓭𝓮 𝓦𝓪𝓵𝓵

Keep loving and shining brightly

-Jen

boundaries

“𝘽𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙝𝙞𝙘𝙝 𝙄 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙚 𝙨𝙞𝙢𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙚𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙡𝙮” ~ 𝙋𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙨 𝙃𝙚𝙢𝙥𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙡

𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘸𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴, 𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦.

𝘋𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺’𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴, 𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘴/𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘺𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘢 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘰𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘦.

𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘮𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘯 …

𝘐𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘶𝘱 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘱𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦.

𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘴𝘢𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨 “𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧, 𝙬𝙚 𝙙𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧”. 𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘥𝘦𝘭 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦.

𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 & 𝘮𝘶𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘱𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵.

𝘞𝘦 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘰𝘧 “𝘨𝘰𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘧𝘧” (𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘕𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 - 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘦, 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘵𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶) 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘴 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺.

𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙖𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙖 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮. 𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨.

𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 & 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨.

𝘑𝘦𝘯

Why work with a coach?

In my experience working with a coach/mentor is a deeply rewarding experience. One that offers an immensely supportive space to unravel & weed out self imposed limitations and limiting beliefs that we may or may not be conscious of.

It provides an opportunity to be held in a space of unconditional love and acceptance (something we often withhold for ourselves) where we are heard, and championed in reaching out brightest and clearest potential.

The best coaches, mentors and teachers I’ve come across have access to coaches,mentors and teachers a few steps ahead. Nobody is just there, we are in a constant state of evolution in the spirit of the cycles of growth and learning.

And certainly a key ingredient being led by ones who have forged the path ahead.

This life (Earth School) can be tricky, in many ways deeply challenging to forge alone. We may have limiting beliefs around it being safer to go at it alone (lone wolf syndrome) or the other swing, giving someone else the responsibility over our sovereignty, both unbalanced types of pendulum swings. At the core both about a deep lack of trust within self.

When you work with me, I’ll offer you a safe, judgment free space to review how life or aspects of your life are going for you. Creating an opening and opportunity to evaluate where there may be the necessity for new ways of thinking/being. The modalities and tools I offer are grounded and not only support and accelerate your personal growth but support you along your journey of self actualisation & evolution.

I truly believe each of us has the capacity to heal ourselves, we do not need to go to a “healer” for the answers, we are our own healers.

Everything you seek is within you. Let me show you the way.

𝓔𝔁𝓹𝓵𝓸𝓻𝓮 𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓟𝓸𝓽𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓪𝓵

Join our weekly class Breathing Space Freo Monday nights or work with me 1-1

why time WON'T heal all wounds.

We’ve all heard the saying “𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬” and I’m sure at some point or another experienced the relief that comes with “time”.

Yet, unless we are fully 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐇𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 our experiences, at a much deeper level those wounds often make a home deep inside our unconscious being. Showing up more often than not through our patterns & behaviours.

Experiencing being “𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝” can give you a direct line into an old wound. Even deeper than that, you may be able to get a sense for the self imposed “𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 and “𝐠𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐬 𝐜𝐞𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬” we imposed upon ourselves and the world as a result of those experiences.

Most of the time these imprints appear dormant, yet behave more like energetic magnets, attracting in experiences that mirror the internal disharmony. Another consequence being, we tend to bring ourselves to life guarded and unable to greet our experiences or the world a-new, thus limiting our capacity to tune into the natural flows of life and who we truly are.

But what if we could 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞? rather than building a fortress around the wounded parts. What if we chose to invite and allow the full expression of all those feelings - all the way through?

What if our natural state was to experience all of it? The broad spectrum of this very human experience, the pain, pleasure and everything in-between.

How would it be to find 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 to do this, to fully participate in life and as a consequence move with the ebbs and flows of life in a limitless way. Where we are 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 and 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 all in one, and are able to cultivate a space of deep intimacy and authenticity within self.

Could you imagine such a place? a safe container to do this for ourselves.

If the potential excites you, I invite you to step in.

Why? 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐰!

respecting our phases.

Despite much of our conditioning, the cycles of growth and learning (evolution) is not linear, we will cycle and spiral through many deaths and rebirths throughout time. Few of us educated on the cycles of nature, the deterioration and regeneration witnessed across all of life, not much different to the grief and elation experienced through the process of alchemising wounds.

Many ancient civilisations understood the cyclical nature of things. Accepting & melding with its natural rhythms and flows, the wanes and waxes of the moon, the shedding and regenerating of all life, and winters that inevitably move into Spring. They understood that every ascent begins with a descent, this message encoded in ancient stories and mythologies.

In todays world many of us are obsessed with one directional ascension, be it through constant achievement and progress in the material world or spiritually through the denial of the murkiness in our inner worlds, wanting to ascend out of the human experience, it’s no wonder we have parts that feel lost, fearful, broken, unworthy, unlovable, and even insane when entering the initiation of descent. The irony being, much of our potential and wisdom is born our intimacy with our deepest pain.

Our ascension (experienced as descension - spirit into matter) does not happen through denying our wounding or intense emotions. It happens through meeting it. Through loving the most fragmented, broken, shattered pieces of ourselves back into wholeness to reveal our true nature. We come to know that much of our light lives in the depths of the avoided and denied parts and if our intentions are to liberate it, we will have to trade our comfort for courage to confront our densest most vulnerable places.

If you are entering a next cycle, take heed in knowing through each phase comes the opportunity for rebirth. That’s the nature of things, it’s simply how we evolve. We can choose to embrace it or fight against its natural currents.

The choice is always ours.

Inspired by Camille W.

~ Jen

the universe is constantly providing us with opportUNITIES TO learn, grow and evolve.

In moments of challenge it can be easy loose sight of the bigger picture.

Yet, Life itself is always conspiring to move us towards growth and evolution. This is the very way of nature, you only have to venture into our forests to see it in action. There is always new growth, death and rebirth, without these flows nature itself would seize to exist and hence would we.

The experience of not getting what we think we want for example, can often be our greatest opportunities to welcome in new learning and growth.

Growth is often ( not always but often ) born out of the mud and our capacity to engage in deep self reflection and enquiry..

What can I learn here?

What opportunities are presenting to grow, review or even un become?

What is the universal mirror reflecting back to me? - is the outer world reflecting my inner world ?

For instance do I have beliefs around ? [insert chosen belief] and is the universe reflecting that back to me through experiences?

If so, how can work with these reflections to harmonise/heal and make space for a new experience?

Or on the flip side could there be something greater waiting for me that I cannot yet see? and can I simply surrender to that ?

This is all about being open to the opportunities that are presenting to grow, learn or even un become which is also governed by our capacity and openness to receive feedback through the universal mirror.

The magnitude of these experiences often escapes us. Resulting in overlooking the hidden gifts, gems on offer.

Our “superpower” lies in our capacity to both respond (as opposed to react) and surrender to the flows and currents of life itself; and all part of this wonderous existence within a benevolent universe, where learning, growth and evolution lie at its centre.

Keep loving & shining brightly

-Jen